This episode explains what stress is, and how it recruits our brain
and body to react in specific ways. I describe the three main types of
stress, and how two of them actually enhance the function of our
immune system making us less vulnerable to infections. I review tools
that allow us to control our stress in real-time, as well as tools to
prevent long-term stress, burnout and stress-induced illness and
anxiety. As always, we cover behavioral tools and supplements that can
assist or hinder stress control.
- Introduction
- Emotions: A Logical Framework of Brain-Body Loops
- Stress: The (Falsely Narrow) Animal Attack Narrative
- The Stress RESPONSE: Generic, Channels blood, Biases Action
- Tools to Actually Control Stress: Reduce Alertness or Increase Calm
- The Fastest Way to Reduce Stress In Real Time: “Respiratory Sinus Arrhythmia”
- The Fastlane to Calm
- Important Notes About Heart Rate Deceleration: Vaso-vagal Lag
- Cyclic Sighing For Calm and Sleep Induction
- Nasal Breathing For Cosmetic, Immune and Performance Enhancement
- Two Breathing Centers In The Brain
- Breathing For Speaking Clearly
- The 3 Types of Stress: Short, Medium and Long-Term
- Positive Effects of Short-Term Stress: Immunity and Focus
- Adrenalin (Epinephrine) Deploys Killer Immune Cells
- Cyclic Deep Breathing IS Stress: Wim Hof, Tummo & Super-Oxygenation
- Inflammation Is Useful and Good, In the Short Term
- Procrastination and Self-Manufactured Nootropics
- Relaxation Can Causes Illness
- Immune Activation Protocol
- Medium Term Stress: A Clear Definition
- Stress Threshold
- Stress Inoculation Tools: Separating Mind & Body, On Purpose
- Use Vision to Calm the Mind When the Body Is Agitated
- Beyond NSDR
- Long Term Stress: Definition, Measurement, Cardiovascular Risks
- Tools for Dealing With Long Term Stress
- The Oxytocin Myth
- Serotonin: Satiety, Safety
- Delight and Flexibility
- Chemical Irritants We Make But Can Control: Tackykinin
- Impactful Gratitude
- Non-Prescription Chemical Compounds For Additional Anti-Stress Support
- Melatonin: Cautionary Note About Adrenal Suppression
- Adrenal Burnout Is A Myth… But Why You Need to Know About It Anyway
- L-Theanine For Stress Reduction and Task Completion Anxiety
- Beware Taurine and Energy Drinks With Taurine
- Ashwagandha: Can Powerfully Lower Anxiety And Cortisol
- Examine.com Is An Amazing Free Resource
- How This All Relates to Emotions: State Versus Demand = Valence
- Modulating Reactivity, Mindfulness, & Functionality With Objective Tools
- Next Steps
- Topic Suggestions, Subscriptions and Reviews Please
- Additional Resources, Synthesis
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Today's episode is going to be all about the science of emotions. The
first month of the podcast, we talked about sleep and wakefulness.
Last month, we were talking about neuroplasticity, the brain's ability
to change in response to experience. And this month we're going to
talk about these things that we call emotions. We're going to decipher
what they are, how they work, how we can control them when we might
not want to control them. There are going to be four episodes on
emotions. And today, we're going to talk in particular about something
that most often is called stress. Now, you might be thinking, "Wait,
stress isn't an emotion." But stress really lies at the heart of
whether or not our internal experience is matched well or not to our
external experience where the events that are happening to us and
around us. And as you'll soon, see those converge or combine to create
what we call emotions. Now, I want to be very clear that we're going
to talk about the biology of emotions, we're going to talk a little
bit about some psychological concepts related to emotion, and we are
definitely going to talk about tools to control what we call stress or
commonly think of as stress. We're also going to clean up some common
myths about stress. For instance, that stress impairs your immune
system. That's true in certain contexts. And in other contexts, stress
actually enhances your immune system and makes it function better.
There is going to be a lot of discussion about whether or not our
internal state, whether or not we are alert or calm is good or bad,
depending on the circumstances. So, where we're headed here is I'd
like you to come away from today's episode with what I call an
organizational logic, a framework for thinking about these things that
typically we just call happy or sad or depressed or anxious. And I'm
going to make sure that you have tools that are grounded in physiology
and neuroscience that will allow you to navigate this otherwise
complex space that we call emotions that will allow you to ground
yourself better when you're feeling like life is weighing on you,
where you're kind of being pulled by the currents of life as well as
to support other people whether or not that's in a psychological
practice if you're a practitioner, or you have clients or children or
spouses, really, to be able to support other people in your
environment better. And the tools that I'm going to focus on today
range from behavioral tools. We will talk about some of the more
valuable supplementation tools that are out there. And we're going to
talk a little bit about things like depression, PTSD, but we will be
devoting entire episodes to things like depression, PTSD, and even
attention deficit and obsessive compulsive disorder, which believe it
or not, although this might not surprise many of you, have a very
strong emotional component. It's just not just about compulsive
behaviors and intrusive thoughts. It's also about the emotional load
of being in that state. So, I promise that today we're going to clean
up a lot of misunderstanding. We're going to give you a lot of tools
and you're going to learn a lot about the biology of how your body and
brain work together. Because if ever there was a topic that brought
together the brain and body or mind-body relationship, it's stress and
emotions. It's also the positive emotions. When we feel something,
whether or not we're super happy or just feeling kind of pleasant or
we are feeling stressed, anxious, and overwhelmed, it isn't just in
our head. It's also in our body. And as you may recall, the nervous
system, which includes the brain and the eyes and the spinal cord, but
also all the connections with the organs of the body includes the
brain and body. And those organs of the body, your gut, and your
liver, and your spleen, they're also communicating with the brain. So,
I look forward to a day, in fact, when we no longer think about
neuroscience as just the brain. And many neuroscientists now also
think about the body, of course. And the brain controls the body, but
the body is also having a very profound and concrete influence on the
brain. I think up until recently, people would hear about kind of
brain-body and always think about mindfulness. We're actually not
going to talk that much about mindfulness at all today. Mindfulness is
kind of a vague concept, in fact. When you think about mindfulness,
it's good to take the opposite. What's the opposite of mindfulness?
Would be mindlessness. Well, all of a sudden we're into territory that
isn't really easy for one person to describe their experience or to
help others with their experience. Today, we're going to talk about
objective tools that match the brain-body experience or separate the
brain-body experience in ways that leverage your ability to lean into
life better, to feel better, literally to just feel better about what
you're experiencing, and believe it or not, to be able to control your
emotions when that's appropriate. This isn't about becoming robotic.
This isn't about trying not to feel human. This is actually about
being able to lean into life better as a consequence of being able to
control some of your inner real estate. This nervous system that
includes the brain and body and how that nervous system is interacting
with the outside world. So, it's to place you in a greater position of
power. And so, let's get started in deciphering what is stress, what
are emotions, and why did I batch stress and emotions into one
discussion today? Okay. So, what is stress? We hear all the time that
stress is bad.
We hear people saying they're really stressed out. What is stress?
You've all presumably heard the arguments or the framework that stress
is this horrible ancient carryover over from times in which humans
were pursued by animals or other human predators and that whenever we
feel what we call stress or feel stressed out, that it's just this
unfortunate invasion of something that we no longer need in modern
life, that this was designed for when we were being attacked by bears
or tigers or lions or whatever it is. And gosh, what an unfortunate
thing. And we have so many creature comforts nowadays, but we have not
eliminated this stress. Almost as if it was like an organ or a system
in our body that was bad for us, that we're stuck with just because of
the species that we are. But first of all, all species experience
stress. And I think that it's fair to say even though I wasn't there,
that yes, in fact, throughout our evolutionary history, we were
vulnerable to animal attack and other human attacks on a regular basis
up until a point where we started developing weapons and structures
and fire and other things that allow us to protect ourselves better
from those animals and invaders of various kinds. But it is entirely
naive for us to think that in ancient times, ancient times being kind
of loose term for previous on medieval times, 100 years ago, 1000
years ago, 10,000 years ago, of course, there were infidelities,
right? Partners cheated. People died. In fact, before the advent of
phones, which we're going to talk about today, you can imagine that
someone might head off on a hunt or to go visit a relative and never
come back and you would never know why. That would be very stressful.
So, there was psychosocial stress. There was the stress of losing
loved ones. There was the stress of cold, of famine. There was the
stress probably also of just worry. This idea that ancient versions of
humans 1000 years ago, 100 years ago didn't worry, I think that is
entirely inconsistent with everything we know about the structure of
the human brain 100 years, 1000 years ago. So, all the problems that
we're struggling with existed forever. It's just that stress at its
core is a generalized system. It wasn't designed for tigers attacking
us or people attacking us. It's a system to mobilize other systems in
the brain and body. That's what stress really is. It's designed to be
generic. And that's the most important thing that I'd like you to
understand today, is that the system that governs what we call stress
is generic. It wasn't designed for one thing. And that gives it a
certain advantage in taking over the state of our brain and body, but
it also gives you, all of us an advantage in controlling it because
it's based on hard-wired biological mechanisms and there are hard-
wired biological mechanisms, meaning cells and chemicals and pathways
and tissues that exist in you right now that require no
neuroplasticity that allow you to put a brake on stress. And so, we're
going to talk about those. So, you have a system for stress and you
have a system for distress that are baked into you. They were
genetically encoded. And you were born with them and you still have
them now. So, if you're alive and listening, you have the capacity to
control your stress. And today, I'm going to talk about ways that you
can control your stress, not just by doing some offline practice of
meditation or breath work or something like that, but real-time tools.
Tools that allow you to push back on stress when stress hits in real
time. This is something that my lab works actively on in developing
and testing these tools and evolving these tools. And there are other
laboratories that do this as well. So, let's talk about the stress
response.
And by doing that, you will understand exactly why the tools I'm going
to give you work. For those of you that are saying, "Wait, I just want
the tools. Just give me a summary," trust me, if you understand
mechanism, you are going to be in a far better position to incorporate
these tools, to teach these tools to others, and to modify them as
your life circumstances change. If you'd like the cheat sheet or you
just want the one-page PDF, eventually we'll get that stuff out to
people, but it's really important to understand the underlying
mechanism. Okay. So, what is stress? Well, let's just distinguish
between stressors, which are the things that stress us out, and
stress, which is the psychological and physiological response to
stressors. I'm mainly going to talk about stress, which is your
response to things. Let's be clear about what we already know, which
is that stressors can be psychological or they can be physical. Okay?
If I put you outside on a cold day without a jacket for a very long
time, that is stressful. If I have you prepare for too many exams at
once and you can't balance it all with your sleep schedule and your
other needs for comfort and wellbeing, like food, rest, sleep, and
social connection, that is stressful. So, stress, and as I mentioned
before, is generic. It doesn't distinguish between physical and
emotional stress. So, what happens when the stress response hits?
Let's talk about the immediate or what we call the acute stress
response. We could also think of this as short-term stress. So, you
have a collection of neurons. They have a name. It's called the
sympathetic chain ganglia. And it has nothing to do with sympathy.
Sympa means together. And there's a group of neurons that start right
about at your neck and run down to about your navel, a little bit
lower, and those are called the sympathetic chain ganglia. You don't
need to memorize that name. There will not be a quiz. But it's
important to know that in the middle of your body, you have a chain of
neurons that when something stresses us out, either in our mind or
because something enters our environment and we see something that
stresses us out, that we don't like heights if you're afraid of
heights, somebody you dislike walks into the room, et cetera, that
chain of neurons becomes activated like a bunch of dominoes falling on
all at once. It's very fast. When that happens, those neurons release
a neuromodulator neurochemical that I've talked about before on this
podcast called acetylcholine. They release that at various sites
within the body. Now, this is important because normally,
acetylcholine would be used to move muscles. Actually, every time we
move a muscle, pick up a cup of coffee, write with a pen, walk down
the street, it's spinal neurons connecting to muscle and releasing
acetylcholine. So, in the brain it's involved in focus and it muscles
is involved in making muscles twitch. But if we were stressed, we
wouldn't want all our muscles to contract at once because we would
just be kind of like paralyzed like this in what tonic activation, as
it's called. We wouldn't want that. Something called tetanus, believe
it or not. because the tetanus toxin will cause that kind of rigor of
the entire body. You do not want that. When those neurons are
activated, acetylcholine is released, but there are some other neurons
for the aficionados out there. They're called the postganglionic
neurons. Those ones respond to that acetylcholine and then they
release epinephrine, which is the equivalent to adrenaline. So, we
have this system where it's very fast whenever we're stressed, the
core of our body, these neurons down the middle of our body release
these chemicals and then there's adrenaline or epinephrine released at
particular organs and acts in particular ways. We're going down into
the weeds here. So just stay with me because it's going to make a lot
of sense and you will appreciate having this knowledge in hand. That
epinephrine acts in two different ways. Some things like the muscles
of your legs and your heart and other things that need to be active
when you're stressed, they have a certain kind of receptor which is
called the beta receptor. And that beta receptor responds to
epinephrine and blood vessels dilate. They get bigger and blood rushes
in to our legs. The heart rate speeds up. Lots of things happen that
get activated. And at the same time, that epinephrine activates other
receptors on certain tissues that we don't need. The ones involved in
digestion, reproduction, and things of that sort that are luxuries for
when things are going well, not things to pay attention to when we're
stressed. And that binds to other receptors that contract the blood
vessels. So, basically the stress response, this is the key phrase
here, the stress response A, is generic, I said that before, and B, it
basically pushes certain systems to be activated and other systems to
not be activated. So, the stress response is two-pronged. It's a yes
for certain things and it's a no, you may not right now for other
things. So, that's the key thing to understand about the stress
response. That's why your heart speeds up. That's why you feel blood
in certain organs and tissues of your body, but not in others. That's
why your throat goes dry because it turns out that when you get
stressed, the salivary glands are shut down. There's a lot less blood
flow to the neurons that control salivation. And so, you're going to
start swallowing. You feel like your throat is getting dry. There are
a lot of different effects. I'm not going to list them all off, but
basically, you are activated in ways that support you moving. So,
that's the third thing. It's first of all, it's generic. Second of
all, the stress response, activate certain things and shuts down other
features of our body. And then it's a sense of agitation that makes
you want to move. And that's because fundamentally, the stress
response is just this generic thing that says do something. And
movement in this case can either be the bias to move in terms of
action, or it can be the bias to say something. When we are stressed,
we are more likely to say something that probably we shouldn't say. We
are more likely to move. And if you're trying to suppress movement,
you'll feel that as a tremor. You're going to feel agitated and that's
because it was designed to move you. So, this is important because if
you want to control stress, you need to learn how to work with that
agitation. I'd like to give you a tool at this point, because I think
if we go any further with a lot more science, people are going to
begin to wonder if this is just going to be a kind of standard
university lecture about the stress response.
I'm going to give you more signs about the stress response, but I want
to take what we now already know about the stress response and use
that as a framework for thinking about how one might reduce or even
eliminate the stress response quickly in real time, should it arise
when we don't want it. So, we're taking the podium or we're sitting
down at a Zoom call, and all of a sudden we're feeling flushed. We're
feeling like our heart is racing. We're feeling a little too alert.
We're feeling a little worked up and we want to calm down. As far as I
am aware of, the best tools to reduce stress quickly, so-called real-
time tools are going to be tools that have a direct line to the so-
called autonomic nervous system. The autonomic nervous system is a
name given to the kind of general features of alertness or calmness in
the body. Typically, it means automatic. Although we do have some
control over it at certain what so-called leavers are entry points.
Here's what doesn't work to control stress. Telling yourself to calm
down. In fact, that tends to just exacerbate stress. Telling someone
else to calm down also tends to exacerbate their stress. If you want
to reduce the magnitude of the stress response, the best thing you can
do is activate the other system in the body which is designed for
calming and relaxation. And that system is called the parasympathetic
nervous system. Because as I mentioned before, the neurons that
control stress run from about your neck to your navel. The
parasympathetic neurons, para just means near, exist in, they're some
of the cranial nerves. So, it's kind of left neck and lower brainstem.
Kind of back of the brain and in the neck and in the pelvic area. And
the parasympathetic nervous system is really interesting because
especially the cranial nerves, the ones that are up in the brainstem
and in the neck area, those have a direct line to various features of
your face, in particular, the eyes. They control things like eye
movements, pupil dilation, things of that sort, as well as the tongue,
the facial muscles, et cetera. The parasympathetic nervous system,
many people don't realize this, is the system by which we control the
face and the eyes, and to some extent, our airway, the trachea. And
it's these neurons that reside within the pelvic area. Now, the
neurons within the pelvic area are involved in control of the
genitals, the bladder, and the rectum. And those don't have a direct
line. You don't have a direct way to control those. It actually has to
go from brain to spinal cord and then out to those organs. Whereas the
parasympathetic nervous system has certain entry points or what I'll
call leavers that will allow you to push back on the stress response
in real time and diminish it and feel more relaxed really quickly. So,
I'm going to teach you the first tool now, so I don't overwhelm you
with all this academic knowledge without giving you something useful.
And the tool that at least to my knowledge is the fastest and most
thoroughly grounded in physiology and neuroscience for calming down in
a self-directed way is what's called the physiological sigh, S-I-G-H.
Now, some of you might've heard me talk about this on previous
podcasts, but I'm going to explain this in the context of how
respiration in general is used to calm us down. And turns out you're
all doing this all the time, but you are doing it involuntarily. And
when you stress, you tend to forget that you can also activate these
systems voluntarily. This is an extremely powerful set of techniques
that we know from scientific studies that are being done in my lab,
Jack Feldman's lab at UCLA, and others now that are very, very useful
for reducing your stress response in real time. And here's how they
work. These days, there seems to be a lot of interest in breath work.
Breath work typically, is when you go and you sit down or you lie down
and you deliberately breathe in a particular way for a series of
minutes in order to shift your physiology, access some states. And it
does have some utility that we're going to talk about, that is not
what I'm talking about now. What I'm talking about when I refer to
physiological sighs, is the very real medical school textbook
relationship between the brain, the body, and the body as it relates
to the breathing apparati, meaning the diaphragm and lungs and the
heart. Let's take the hallmark of the stress response. The heart
starts beating faster. Blood is shuttled to the big muscles of the
body to move you away from whatever it is the stressor is or just make
you feel like you need to move or talk. Your face goes flushed, et
cetera. Heart rate, many of us feel is involuntary. Just kind of
functions whether or not we're moving fast or moving slow. If you
think about it, it's not really purely autonomic because you can speed
up your heart rate by running or you can slow it down by slowing down
your run. You can move to a walk or lie down. But that's indirect
control. There is however, a way in which you can breathe that
directly controls your heart rate through the interactions between the
sympathetic and the parasympathetic nervous system. Here's how it
works. When you inhale, so whether or not it's through the nose or
through the mouth, this skeletal muscle that's inside your body called
the diaphragm, it moves down. And that's because the lungs expand, the
diaphragm moves down. Your heart actually gets a little bit bigger in
that expanded space. There's more space for the heart. So, not your
emotional heart getting bigger. I'm talking about your actual physical
heart getting a little bit bigger. The volume grows. And as a
consequence, whatever blood is in there is now at a lower volume or
moving a little bit more slowly in that larger volume than it was
before you inhaled. Okay? So more space, heart gets bigger. Blood
moves more slowly. And there's a little group of neurons called the
sinoatrial node in the heart that registers, believe it or not, those
neurons pay attention to the rate of blood flow through the heart and
send a signal up to the brain that blood is moving more slowly through
the heart. The brain then sends a signal back to the heart to speed
the heart up. So, what this means is if you want your heart to beat
faster, inhale longer, inhale more vigorously than your exhales. Now,
there are a variety of ways that one could do that, but it doesn't
matter if it's through the nose or through the mouth. If your inhales
are longer than your exhales, you're speeding up your heart. If your
inhales are more vigorous, so even if your inhales are shorter than
your exhales, you are speeding up your heart rate. Now, the opposite
is also true. If you want to slow your heart rate down, so stress
response hits, you want to slow your heart rate down, what you want to
do is again, capitalize on this relationship between the body, meaning
the diaphragm and the heart and the brain. Here's how it works. When
you exhale, the diaphragm moves up, which makes the heart a little bit
smaller. It actually gets a little more compact. Blood flows more
quickly through that compact space sort of like just a pipe getting
smaller. The sinoatrial node registers that blood is going more
quickly, sends a signal up to the brain. And the parasympathetic
nervous system, some neurons in your brain stem send a signal back to
the heart to slow the heart down. So, if you want to calm down
quickly, you need to make your exhales longer and or more vigorous
than your inhales. Now, the reason this is so attractive as a tool for
controlling stress is that it works in real time. This doesn't involve
a practice that you have to go and sit there and do anything separate
from life. And we are going to get to emotion. Emotions and stress
happen in real time. And so, while it's wonderful to have a breath
work practice or to have the opportunity to get a massage or sit in a
sauna or do whatever it is that you do in order to set your stress
controls in the right direction, having tools that you can reach to in
real time that require no learning, I mean, I had to teach it to you,
you had to learn that, but it doesn't require any plasticy to activate
these pathways. So, if you're feeling stressed, you still need to
inhale, of course, but you need to lengthen your exhales. Now, there's
a tool that capitalizes on this in a kind of unique way, a kind of a
twist, which is the physiological sigh. The physiological sigh was
discovered in the '30s.
It's now been explored at the neuro-biological level and
mechanistically in far more detail by Jack Feldman's lab at UCLA. Also
Mark Krasnow's lab at Stanford. And the physiological sigh is
something that humans and animals do anytime they are about to fall
asleep. You also do it throughout sleep from time to time when carbon
dioxide, which we'll talk about in a moment, builds up too much in
your system. And the physiological sigh is something that people
naturally start doing when they've been crying and they're trying to
recover some air or calm down when they've been sobbing very hard or
when they are in claustrophobic environments. However, the amazing
thing about this thing that we call the diaphragm, the skeletal
muscle, is that it's an internal organ that you can control
voluntarily, unlike your spleen or your heart or your pancreas where
you can't just say, "Oh, I want to make my pancreas turn out a little
more insulin right now. I'm just going to do that with my mind
directly." You can't do that. You can do that by smelling a really
good donut or something, but you can't just do it directly. You can
move your diaphragm intentionally, right? You can do it anytime you
want. And it'll run in the background if you're not thinking about it.
So, this incredible pathway that goes from brain to diaphragm through
what's called the phrenic nerve, P-H-R-E-N-I-C. Phrenic. The phrenic
nerve innervates the diaphragm. You can control anytime you want. You
can double up your inhales or triple up your inhales. You can exhale
more than your inhales. Whatever you want to do. Such an incredible
organ. And the physiological sigh is something that we do
spontaneously. But when you're feeling stressed, you can do a double
inhale, [inhales deeply] [exhales] long exhale. Now, I just told you a
minute ago that if you inhale more than you exhale, you're going to
speed the heart rate up, which would promote more stress and
activation. Now I'm telling you to do a double inhale-exhale in order
to calm down. And the reason is the double inhale-exhale which is the
physiological sigh takes advantage of the fact that when we do a
double inhale, even if the second inhale is sneaking in just a tiny
bit more air, because it's kind of hard to get to deep inhales back to
back, you do big deep inhale and then another little ones sneaking it
in, the little sacks in your lungs. If you only have the lungs. Your
lungs are just two big bags, but you've got millions of little sacks
throughout the lungs that actually make the surface area of your lungs
as big as a tennis court. It's amazing if we were to just spread out.
Those tend to collapse as we get stressed. And carbon dioxide builds
up in our bloodstream and that's one of the reasons we feel agitated
as well. So, and it makes us very jittery. I mean, there's some other
effects of carbon dioxide I don't want to get into, but when you do
the double inhale-exhale, the double inhale reinflates those little
sacks of the lungs. And then when you do the long exhale, that long
exhale is now much more effective at reading your body and bloodstream
of carbon dioxide, which relaxes you very quickly. My lab in
collaboration with David Spiegel's lab, David's the Associate Chair of
Psychiatry at Stanford, are doing a study right now exploring how
physiological sighs and other patterns of breathing done deliberately
can modulate the stress response and other things related to
emotionality. Those work are ongoing. I want to be clear those studies
aren't done. But it's very clear from work in our labs, from work in
Jack Feldman's lab and others, that the physiological sigh is the
fastest, hardwired way for us to eliminate this stressful response in
our body quickly in real time. And so, I'm excited to give you this
tool because I think most people have heard that mindfulness and
meditation is good, exercise is good for us, we all need to be getting
enough sleep, et cetera, but life happens. And when you find yourself
in a position where you are more alert and activated than you would
like to be, regardless of whether or not the stressor is relationship-
based or it's financial or it's physical or anything like that, you
can look to the physiological sigh because it bypasses a very
important feature of how we function, which is that it's very hard to
control the mind with the mind, especially when we are in heightened
states of activation. When you're very alert or very sleepy, it is
very hard to use these so-called top-down mechanisms of intention and
gratitude and all these things that are really powerful tools when we
are not super activated and stressed or not super tired. But when we
are anywhere in the range of very alert and stressed to very sleepy,
physiological sighs are a powerful way of bringing our level of so-
called autonomic activation, which just means our level of alertness
down. And so, whether or not it's in line at the bank or whether or
not you're wearing a mask nowadays or you're not, whatever the
conditions may be where you're at and your needs, when you're feeling
stressed, the physiological sigh done just one to three times, it will
be double inhale, exhale, double inhale, exhale maybe just two times
will bring down your level of stress very, very fast. And as far as I
know, it's the fastest way to accomplish that.
An important note about the physiological sigh or exhale-emphasized
breathing for lowering the stress response. Many people worry that
their heart rate does not come down fast enough. I want to tell you
you do not want your heart rate to reduce very fast. There's actually
something called the vasovagal response, where people will stand up or
they'll get up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom and then
all of a sudden, they'll collapse, they'll faint. That's because the
heart rate was reduced too much. Some people will see blood or they'll
see something really troubling and stressful and they'll pass out.
That's an over-activation or an acceleration of the calming response.
They're not so stressed that they kind of fall off the cliff of
stress. They get so stressed that the rebound mechanism for calming
themselves down goes too high, too fast. They calmed down too fast and
they collapse and faint. And so, be aware that if you're going to use
the physiological sigh or exhale-emphasized breathing to calm down,
that your heart rate will take about 20 to 30 seconds to come down to
baseline. And you may need to repeat the physiological sigh a few
times. So, that's an important note about the use of breathing to
control levels of stress. The other thing is that when you decide to
look to the body to control the mind, it does something else that's
very powerful. When you are stressed in your mind and body, so you're
feeling really agitated, activated, and worried, and you use a tool
like the physiological sigh or exhale-emphasized breathing, you will
notice that then your brain and your mind becomes more available for
controlling the stress response and reacting to it. Which is great
because the sweet spot in life is to be, provided you're not trying to
sleep, is to be alert and calm. And so, that's the idea. Is to be
alert and calm and to bring you back into that sort of plane of
alertness. For those of you that have trouble sleeping or just
relaxing through the day, the physiological sigh can be repeated for
10, 15 cycles if you like.
Some people find that it actually puts them to sleep. So, if they lie
down and they're reading and they do too many of these, that actually
can put them to sleep. And what you'll find is that most breath work
protocols, the kind of stuff that's done away from real life, that you
set aside time and decide to do quote unquote, breath work, most of
that works such that if you're doing inhales that are longer and more
vigorous than exhales, it tends to be activating and alert you. If
you're doing exhales that are longer and more vigorous than the
inhales, it tends to put you to sleep. And many of the protocols that
are out there from laboratories and that populate the internet and
wellness sites and whatnot, if it's exhale-emphasized breathing,
oftentimes has been used as a tool for trying to teach people to fall
asleep. Physiological sigh is a little different. It's designed to be
used in real time. Just think of it is just kind of in your kit of
things that you can do as life happens and as you need to react to
life. A note about nasal versus mouth breathing, there's a plethora of
information out there now because of James Nestor's book, "Breath: The
New Science of a Lost Art," which came out this last year.
Excellent book. As well as "Jaws" which is from Sandra Kahn, Paul
Ehrlich with a foreword by Jared Diamond and Robert Sapolsky. So, a
collection of people from Stanford. Jared Diamond is not at Stanford,
but the rest are. And some heavy hitters on that book, which is about
the benefits of nasal breathing. And in many cases, nasal breathing is
more advantageous than mouth breathing for all sorts of things.
Cosmetic features of the face, especially in kids, warding off
infection, et cetera. With the physiological sigh, the best way to do
it would be double inhale through the nose, exhale through the mouth.
But if you can't, and you can only do that through your mouth, just do
it through your mouth. If want to do all through your nose, do it
through your nose. This anchors back to some underlying neurology or
neuroscience. So, for those of you that want to know, you have two
breathing centers.
One that's involved in rhythmic breathing for inhales followed by
exhales, followed by inhales followed by exhales. The so-called pre-
Botzinger nucleus named after a bottle of wine and discovered by Jack
Feldman at UCLA and a nearby nucleus called the parafacial nucleus
also discovered by Jack Feldman at UCLA. And the parafacial nucleus is
involved in any time you double up the inhales or double up the
exhales. It was designed so that you could breathe while you're
speaking because you can't always go inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale
when you're speaking. So, I tell you this, not to overwhelm you with
knowledge, but just know that when you double up your inhales or you
double up your exhales, you are activating this parafacial nucleus.
And it has other cool effects. Because it's located near the neurons
that control the face, it also has a tendency to relax the jaw.
There's some interplay between the neurons that control the speaking
stuff and the stuff for your tongue. So, all of a sudden, when we do
this physiological sigh, we tap into neural circuitry that allows us
to speak more clearly, to control the muscles of the face and jaw.
Maybe that means not saying certain things when we're stressed, and
just generally to relax.
And so, this brings us back to the neuroscience of this
parasympathetic nervous system. This calming system that's been
genetically encoded into us that we all have, regardless of who our
parents are, which is that the neurons that control all this stuff,
the face, the eyes, et cetera, are all working together. And that's
why when we get stressed, it's hard for us to speak or we tend to
jitter and these kinds of things. Just like all the neurons that cause
stress in the center of the spinal cord are working together to get
our body activated. Okay, lot of science today. You've now got the
physiological sigh as a tool. You know the exhale-emphasized breathing
will slow your heart down and inhale-emphasized breathing will speed
your heart up. So, let's think about something now. Let's think about
stress from not whether or not it's acute or chronic, whether or not
it's good for us or bad for us, but on three different timescales.
Because then we can arrive at what this is all about as it relates to
emotions. Because trust me, this has everything to do with emotions
and whether or not you're functioning well emotionally or you're not
functioning well emotionally, whether or not you're coping or not
coping. So, those are typically psychological terms and psychological
discussions. We are entering this through the portal of physiology.
The stuff of medical textbooks. And we will arrive at the psychology
soon, but I really want you to understand the difference between the
three kinds of stress on three different timescales, short-term,
medium-term, and long-term, and what it's good for and what it's bad
for. I think we've all heard that stress is bad for us. We've seen
these pictures intended to frighten us. And indeed they are
frightening. You see the nice really plump brain on the left. It says
healthy or control. And then you see the brain that says stressed
above it on the right and it's like withered, where we see that the
hippocampus and area involved in memory is smaller. People that are
stressed. We see that the Alzheimer's brain is made worse by stress.
That people who have a predisposition to schizophrenia, when they get
stressed, higher incidence of schizophrenia episodes. You hear that
addicts will relapse when they're stressed. I mean, okay, we get it.
And it's very important, but I think we've all heard now so many times
that stress is bad. But in that conversation, unfortunately, it's
eclipsed some of the really positive things that stress does for us in
the short-term.
So, stress can be short-term, medium-term, or long-term. Long-term
stress is indeed bad for all the reasons I just mentioned and many
others. But what's never actually been discussed is what stress is so
terrific for, positive for in the short-term. And I think we tend to
overlook the important question, which is what is short-term and what
is long-term? No one ever bothers to tell us what is chronic, what is
acute. Right? Is it five minutes? Is it five days? Is it for the
duration of final exams? Or is it for the duration of a senior thesis
in college? No one actually draws boundaries around this stuff or even
general guidelines. And so, it's become a bit of a mess, frankly, to
try and decipher this whole space around stress. So, I'm going to try
and clean some of this up for you based on what we know from the
scientific data. First of all, acute stress, when the stress response
hits, that is good for your immune system. I know that might be a
tough pill to swallow, but it's absolutely true. In fact, stress often
comes in the form of bacterial or viral infection. And the stress
response is in part organized to combat bacterial and viral infection.
There are pathways from the same brain centers that activate these
neurons in your spinal cord to make you feel like you want to move.
There are other neurons in your brain that activate things like your
spleen, which will deploy killer cells to go out and scavenge for
incoming bacteria and viruses and try and eat them up and kill them.
So, short-term stress and the release of adrenaline in particular or
epinephrine, same thing, adrenaline and epinephrine, is good for
combating infection. And this to me is just not discussed enough. So,
that's why I'm discussing it here. And it relates to a particular tool
that many of you ask about, but I don't often get the opportunity to
talk about in such an appropriate context. It's not that it's ever
inappropriate to talk about, but what I'm about to talk about now is
the use of, again, respiration breathing to somewhat artificially
activate the stress response. And that will accomplish two things.
Okay? I'll return to medium and long-term stress, but I want to say
short-term stress is good because the dilation of the pupils, the
changes in the optics of the eyes, the quickening of the heart rate,
the sharpening of your cognition. And in fact that short-term stress
brings certain elements of the brain online that allow you to focus.
Now, it narrows your focus. You're not good at seeing the so-called
big picture, but it narrows your focus. It allows you to do these,
what I call duration path outcome types of analysis. It allows you to
evaluate your environment, evaluate what you need to do. It primes
your whole system for better cognition. It primes your immune system
to combat infection. And that all makes sense when you think about
that the fact that famine, thirst, bacterial infections, viral
infections, invaders, all of this stuff liberates a response in the
body that's designed to get you to fight back against whatever
stressor that happens to be. Psychological, physical, bacterial,
viral. Again, the stress response is generic. The tool takes advantage
of the fact that when adrenaline is released in the body from the
adrenals, it has the effect of also liberating a lot of these killer
cells from the immune organs, in particular from the spleen, but from
elsewhere as well, and interactions with the lymphatic system that
combat infection.
The way this works in the real world is best captured by a study that
can be mapped back to so-called Wim Hof breathing. Now, Wim Hof
breathing is so named after the so-called "Iceman," Wim Hof. Wim Hof,
of course, being this Dutch. He, I think he has self-titled Daredevil.
And indeed he has many, many Guinness Book of World Records for things
like swimming under icebergs and going up Kilimanjaro in his shorts
and crossing the desert without water, et cetera. Things that are
quite dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. And Wim obviously
survived or I'm telling you he survived. But there are two components
to a sort of breathing protocol that he developed that was based also
on what's called Tummo breathing, T-U-M-M-O.
So, before Wim, there was Tummo breathing. And many people call this
now super oxygenation breathing. Although the breath work aficionados
will probably say, well, it's not super oxygenation because you're
also blowing an awful lot of carbon dioxide. What I'm talking about
here, regardless of whether or not it's called Wim Hof, Tummo, or
super oxygenation, is rapid deliberate breathing. So, it's deliberate
hyperventilation. Why would somebody want to do this? Well, deliberate
hyperventilation done for maybe 25 cycles. So inhale, exhale, inhale,
exhale, inhale, exhale. Typically, it's done in through the nose out
through the mouth. Although sometimes it's just through the mouth. If
you do that for 15 breaths, 20 breaths, 25 breaths, you will feel very
alert. People who have anxiety will feel anxious. They might even have
an anxiety attack. However, we need to ask why that kind of breathing
feels that way. And it's because that pattern of breathing, rapid
movements of the diaphragm will liberate adrenaline from the adrenals.
So, it's the release of adrenaline. I mentioned that Wim is also
called "The Iceman." Well, that's because he actually discovered this
pattern of breathing, somewhat. And again, it maps back to Tummo
breathing by going into cold water. When you go into cold water, that
too is a stressor and you liberate adrenaline in response to cold
water. So, if you get into an ice bath or a cold shower, you will
immediately release adrenaline from your adrenals. Now, there are all
sorts of things related to this about psychological control and stress
thresholds that we'll talk about, but I really want people to
understand that when adrenaline is released in the body, you are in a
better position to combat infections. And so, whether or not you
breathe very quickly in these cycles of 25 breaths and regardless of
what you call it, doesn't matter, adrenaline is released. If you take
a cold shower, adrenaline is released. If you go into an ice bath
deliberately, and even if you do it non-deliberately, adrenaline is
released. You are mimicking the stress response. And that adrenaline
serves to suppress or combat incoming infections. And this was
beautifully shown in a study that was published in a very fine
journal, the "Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences for the
US." It's literally called "Proceedings of the National Academy of
USA" to distinguish it from other proceedings of other national
academies in other countries. The way the experiment went is that
people were injected with endotoxin or in some cases they were
injected with a bacterial wall that mimics infection. It gives you a
fever. It makes you feel nauseous. It makes you feel sick. It is not
pleasant. Half of the people did a particular pattern of breathing
that looked very much like the pattern of breathing I described a
moment ago of doing 25 deep inhales and exhales followed by an exhale
holding their breath. Then repeating 25 inhales, exhales holding their
breath. So, this would look something like this, or if you're
listening, it sounds like [inhaling and exhaling]. 25, 30 times,
you'll start feeling heated up. You'll start feeling the adrenaline
response. You're liberating adrenaline in your body. Then exhale, hold
your breath for 15 seconds and then repeat. And then typically, after
doing three or four rounds of that, they would inhale very deeply and
hold their breath. Now, I want to emphasize never ever, ever do this
anywhere near water. People have passed out. So-called shallow water
blackout. People have died. Don't do it in the bathtub. Don't do it
the hot tub. Don't do it before swimming. Please don't do it anywhere
near water. Please don't do it at all, unless you get clearance to do
it from your doctor because there are some pulmonary effects and
whatnot. And the breath holds should definitely not be done by anyone
that has glaucoma pressure concerns for the eyes. But these repeated
cycles of breathing that liberate adrenaline allowed the group that
did that protocol to essentially experience zero symptoms from the
ejection of this E. coli, which is remarkable. They had much reduced
or no symptoms. They didn't feel feverish. They didn't feel sick. They
weren't vomiting, no diarrhea, which is remarkable, but makes total
sense when you think about the fact that the short-term stress
response there, what's typically called the acute stress response,
it's designed to combat all stressors. In fact, were you to cut
yourself very deeply while out on a hike in the woods, the other thing
that would happen is that there would be a rapid inflammation
response.
And we always hear inflammation is bad. Inflammation gives us
Alzheimer's. Inflammation is the worst thing. But the swelling is
associated, the inflammation is associated with the recruitment of
things like macrophages or microglia if it's a neural tissue. Cells in
our brain and body whose job is to act like little ambulances and rush
to that site and clean it up. And indeed the inflammation response
looks horrible, it sounds horrible, but it's a great thing in the
short-term. You want to have that tissue marked as in trouble and you
want the body and brain to react to it. So, if you're getting peaks in
stress from time to time throughout your day or throughout your week,
you are in a better position to combat infection. You are any better
position to heal your wounds, physical wounds. Many great things
happen in the stress response. Now, of course, the stress response
isn't always super intense. Sometimes it's milder. Sometimes it allows
us to just focus on something because we have a deadline.
That can feel stressful, but that's one of the reasons you
procrastinators out there, people are always asking me what can be
done for procrastination? What can be done for procrastination is you
can understand what's happening, which is that you are self-imposing
stress because stress acts like a drug. It is a powerful nootropic. I
get asked about nootropics. The most powerful nootropic or smart drug
is stress. It's the concern of failure. It's the desire to do well.
It's the impending deadline. It's the, "Oh my gosh, I have to do this
thing now or I'm going to fail." That is the best nootropic you will
ever find. That combined with a good night's sleep, which we'll talk
about. But we spent a whole month on sleep. So, I don't want to
backtrack too much. Okay. So, short-term stress, great. The key is to
be able to turn the stress response off when you're done, when you
don't want that. In fact, let's just really tamp down the relationship
between the short-term or acute stress response and infection.
Many of us are familiar with the experience of work, work, work, work,
work, or taking care of a loved one, or stress, stress, stress,
stress, then we finally relax. Maybe we even go on vacation. Like,
"Oh, now I'm finally going to get the break." And then we get sick.
And that's because the adrenaline response crashed and your immune
system crashed with it. So, please understand this. Now, many of you
might say, "Well, how long? Is it two hours? Is it three hours?" A lot
of you out there that really like specificity, it will vary for
everybody. I would just kind of use a rule of thumb. When you are no
longer able to achieve good sleep, what good sleep means to you, and
please see the episodes on sleep if you want more about tools to
sleep, when you are no longer able to achieve good sleep, you are now
moving from acute stress to chronic stress. You need to be able to
turn the stress response off. If I have one wish, well, I have many
wishes for this lifetime, but if I have one wish today that I hope
will permeate and spread out there, is this idea that we need from a
young age, but even as adults and forever, we need to learn how to
turn off our stress response. Physiological sigh is one. If we're
going to activate our stress response intentionally by ice baths, cold
showers, cyclic hyperoxygenated breathing, aka Tummo breathing or Wim
Hof breathing, we also need to learn how to press the brake. Okay? So,
let's think about the stress system. It knows how to activate itself.
Now we're talking about a way of deliberately activating your stress
system in order to combat infection.
I do this from time to time. I might feel a tickle in my throat or
like I'm getting kind of run down, I will do this kind of breathing. I
do. I will take 25 or 30 breaths. Exhale, hold my breath. 25, 30
breaths again, exhale, hold my breath for about 15 seconds. 25, 30
breaths again, exhale, hold my breath for 25 or 30 seconds. Then a big
inhale. And I hold my breath until I feel the impulse to breathe.
Again, I feel it's safe for me. I've run it by my doctor, so it's
fine. You should not do this unless it's right for you. But I do this.
Some people like the ice bath. I rarely do the ice bath. Some people
like cold showers. I like hot showers. So, I take hot showers, but I
do this kind of breathing. Again, they are all having more or less the
same effect of increasing adrenaline, which allows you to combat the
infection because you're activating the immune response.
Okay. So, now let's talk about medium-term stress. Medium-term stress
is going to be stress that lasts anywhere from several days to several
weeks. Okay. We might think of that as long-term stress. There are
times in life when we are just dealing with a lot. Okay? This
particular quarter, I happened to be directing a course, I'm doing the
lab, I'm doing this. I enjoy all these things immensely, but I'm kind
of near my threshold. I'm near the point where any additional thing,
like I couldn't log onto a website the other day and it felt like the
most intense thing in the world at that moment. And I kind of laughed
at myself. Fortunately, I caught it. But that typically wouldn't be my
response under conditions where I wasn't pushed to threshold. What is
this medium-term stress? What is stress threshold? Well, stress
threshold is actually our ability to cognitive re-regulate what's
going on in our body.
So, we all hear so much about we need to unify our mind and body. We
need to be at one with our mind and body or whatever. Now I realize
I'm kind of poking fun at some of the new agey language, but the
reason I poke fun is not because I don't think it has value, but it
has no specificity. What does that mean? I mean, I think I'm always in
my body. I've never fortunately looked across the room and seen my arm
over there or my leg over there. I'm connected to my body. There
actually is a syndrome where people feel disconnected from their
limbs. This is a real clinical condition. These people actually will
seek out amputation. They will try and convince doctors to amputate
certain portions of their body. It's a really terrible thing for
people to have. And it relates to a change in central maps in the
brain, believe it or not. Most of us want to keep our limbs, whichever
ones we happen to have. And most of us feel one in mind and body so
much so that when stress hits, we feel it in our mind and body. A lot
of stress inoculation, a lot of managing medium-term stress on the
timescale of weeks or maybe even a couple months, so we're not talking
about years of stress, a lot of that has to do with raising our stress
threshold.
It's about capacity. And there are very simple tools, excellent tools
that will allow us to modulate our capacity for stress. And they look
a lot like the tools I just described. They involve placing oneself
deliberately into a situation where our adrenaline is increased
somewhat not to the extreme. And then when we feel flooded with
adrenaline, and normally we would panic, it's about cognitively,
mentally, emotionally calming ourselves and being comfortable with
that response in our body. So, unlike trying to unify the mind and
body and make it all calm or make it all alert, this is about
dissociating mind and body in a healthy way. And what would this look
like? Well, this is something I actually do as a practice because I
mentioned before, you can use physiological sighs in real time, you
can use the cyclic hyperoxygenation breathing to combat infection if
you're feeling kind of run down. And there's also a way in which you
can use things like cold showers, or if you exercise and you bring
your heart rate up very high, you kind of go into that high-intensity
realm where your heart is beating a little bit harder than you're
comfortable with and that you're just you feel, some people think it's
lactic acid. No one can agree on this what the burn is, whether or not
it's lactic acids or it's buildup of hydrogen or whatever. I don't
want to get into that, but we're all familiar with the intense feeling
of your muscles kind of burning because you're working very hard
physically. The key in those moments is to learn to relax the mind
while the body is very activated. And what that tends to do, there's a
limited amount of research on this, but what that tends to do is it
tends to create a situation where what once felt like a lot feels
manageable. Okay? That you've raised your stress threshold or your
stress capacity. One way that you can do this, and this is kind of
fun, if it's approved by your physician and you're able to do this,
you can bring your heart rate up. You can do this through an ice bath
if that's your thing or a cold shower or cyclic oxygenation breathing
or you could sprint or you could go hard on the bike, whenever it is
that brings your heart rate up. And then what you want to do is you
want to actually try and calm the mind while your body is in this
heightened state of activation. And the best way that I'm aware to do
that, again goes back to physiology, not psychology. When we are
stressed, our pupils dilate.
The effect of that pupil dilation is to create tunnel vision. It
literally narrows our view of the visual world. We no longer see in
Panorama. And there's some other effects as well. But that's because
the visual system through this cranial nerve system that I described
before is tethered and is part of this autonomic nervous system. By
deliberately dilating your gaze, meaning not moving your head and eyes
around, but by deliberately going from tunnel vision to broader
panoramic vision, literally seeing more of your environment all at
once. You don't have to do what I'm doing, which is not blinking.
You're welcome to blink. But it means deliberately dilating your gaze
so that you can see yourself in the environment you're in. It creates
a calming effect on the mind because it releases a particular circuit
in the brainstem that's associated with alertness, aka stress. Now,
this is very powerful. If you're running, for instance, and you're at
max capacity or close to it, or you're kind of hitting like 80, 90% of
maximum on the bike and you dilate your gaze, what you'll find is the
mind can relax while the body is in full output. And this relates to
work that in various communities, people are working with this in the
sports community, military community, et cetera. But it's a form, not
really of stress inoculation, it's more about raising stress threshold
so that the body is going to continue to be in a high alertness, high
reactivity mode, high output, but the mind is calm. And so, this isn't
about unifying mind and body. This is actually about using body to
bring up your level of activation, then dissociating, not the clinical
dissociation kind of disorders, but dissociating the mental or
emotional response from what's going on in your body. And over time,
so if you do this a couple of times, you don't have to do this every
workout, but if you do this every maybe once a week or so, you start
being comfortable at these higher activation states. What once felt
overwhelming and like a lot of work, now is manageable. It feels
tolerable. So, that's for navigating medium-term stress. Now, there
are other tools as well, but we don't want to go over 90 minutes
because 90 minutes is one old trading cycle. I was trying to keep
these podcasts to one on trading cycle, in case you haven't noticed,
so you can derive maximum benefit from them based on all trading and
cycle principles of learning. So, I don't want to go into every little
bit of this. And I want to make sure we get to emotions. But I want to
emphasize that these medium-term stressors, of, "Oh, it's been a hard
month, or hard week." Stanford's on the quarter system. So 10 weeks or
semester. That becomes more manageable when we train ourselves to be
calm of mind when our body is activated. And if you haven't noticed,
most of the tools I'm describing today are nothing like the sort of,
okay, sit and do meditation.
I'm actively avoiding saying the words NSDR, non-sleep deep rest. I
talked a lot about those tools during the months on sleep and
neuroplasticity. And of course, they are wonderful for replenishing
your ability to lean into effort, to learn to focus. Please do try and
check out NSDR protocol. See if they're right for you. The margins for
safety, I think are enormous. You're basically just listening to a
script. We have links to them in previous captions. I've talked on
them on various podcasts before. We can provide them again. But today
I'm really talking about tools, so you can learn to dance with stress.
To in the short-term, reduce that stress response a little bit if you
feel it's too uncomfortable. In the medium-term, to be comfortable
with these heightened levels of activation because life is going to
continue to come at you. And we can't pick the stressors, but we need
to be able to function at a higher capacity often. And then there's
long-term stress. Now, long-term stress is bad. You do not want
adrenaline up in your system for a very long time. In fact, you
ideally, you would have your stress go up various times throughout the
day, but it would never stay elevated and it would never prevent you
from getting a good night's sleep. Now, that isn't realistic. Okay? I
would say for me, three, four nights out of the month, no matter what
I do, I take on too much or something happens in life is life and I
don't get the best night's sleep that I would like to get. For many of
you, it's 30 nights per month. For some of you, it's zero nights per
month. And congratulations to you zero nights per month people. If you
are managing your sleep really well every night, that is fantastic.
You really want to be able to fall asleep at night, stay asleep for
most of the night. And if you get up, go back to sleep for as long as
you need to in order to feel rested. That's what I define as a healthy
relationship to sleep. Check out the episodes on sleep if you want
tools to be able to accomplish that. And we can all accomplish that.
It can be done. And there are tools to do it. Zero-cost tools. Okay,
so let's talk about long-term stress. Earlier, I talked about how
breathing can modulate heart rate through this loop that includes the
brain and the parasympathetic nervous system.
I don't think I mentioned this, and I want to make sure that I
mentioned that breathing controlling heart rate through the
sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system is the basis of what's
called HRV, heart rate variability. And we know that heart rate
variability is good. You don't want your heart rate chronically
elevated or chronically low. A lot of people think, "Oh, I want a
really nice low heart rate." And indeed, if you're in shape, the
stroke volume of your heart will be greater and you can have a nice
slow heart rate. Years ago when I was running regularly, I think my
heart rate was down to like 50 or 60 or something like that. That's
great. But, and now it's higher than that because I'm running a little
bit less. But everyone needs to determine what's right for them. But
you don't really want your heart rate to be chronically low or
chronically high. Both are bad. We know that chronic stress, elevated
stress and especially in the so-called type A personalities creates
heart disease, the leading killer of for in most, every country, but
in particular in the US. Because of the way that adrenaline impacts
those blood vessels or constricting some and dilating others, it's
just that kind of hypertension, chronic hypertension is just bad. And
so, chronic stress truly is bad. I want to really make that clear
because I emphasized a lot of what some of the positive effects of
stress. But you want to be able to tamp down your stress in real time.
You also want to be able to modulate your stress and your emotional
relationship to stress in the body in the medium-term, but by no means
do you want to be stressed out all the time, chronically for months
and months and months and years on end. The best tools, the best
mechanisms that we know to modulate long-term stress might surprise
you a little bit.
First of all, there are going to be the things that don't surprise
you, which is everyone knows getting regular exercise, getting good
sleep, using real-time tools to try and tamp down the stress response,
et cetera, that's all going to be really useful. The data really
points to the fact that social connection and certain types of social
connection in particular are what are going to mitigate or reduce
long-term stress. And this is a particularly important issue nowadays
where we have all these proxies or surrogates for social connection.
We're online and texting with people a lot, so we can feel connected.
Like the plane's about to take off and everyone's texting each other
whether or not they have fear of flying or not. They're like, "Okay,
see you. Love you. Hate you." Whatever it is that they're trying to
communicate to people. Then plane lands, every phone's out, "See you.
Love you. Hate you." Let's hope it's fewer hate yous. But everyone has
this kind of need to stay connected to one another. Humans are
incredibly social creatures. Now, there is a way to look at this whole
business of social connection, not from just the kind of wishy-washy
new agey perspective. And I want to point out that sometimes I'll say
wishy-washy new agey. I have nothing against that. I just, my goal
here is always to put scientific data and some neurochemistry on
things so that for those of you that are into wishy-washy new agey
stuff, you also can arm yourself with some arguments for those of the
members of your family and your life that maybe aren't so tuned into
the typical language around those practices like, "Oh, connection is
really key. We all get oxytocin." Actually, did you know that
connection between individuals rarely causes the release of oxytocin?
Oxytocin is released in very particular circumstances like post-
orgasm, baby and mother milk let down. It's associated with kind of
really intense kinds of pair bonding things of mother and child. Also
father and child, but especially mother and child, because its
relationship to the lactation system. Couples post-sex. These kinds of
things that reflect deep kind of layers of our biology. And oxytocin
is not just released when we walk in and pat the dog on the head or we
see somebody and we give them a hug and, "Hi, great to see you," fist
bump. That's not a situation for oxytocin. The way to think about
social connection and how it can mitigate some of the long-term
effects of stress is really through the systems of neuromodulation
like serotonin, and through blocking certain things that are really
bad for us when we feel socially isolated.
Things like Taqi Kynan. So, let me explain what these are. Serotonin
again, is a neuromodulator. Neuromodulators are a little bit like
playlists in the brain. They tend to amplify or bias the likelihood
that certain brain circuits and body circuits are going to be
activated and that others will not. Serotonin generally, and I realize
I'm speaking very generally here, but it generally gives us feelings
of wellbeing. At very high levels, it makes us feel blissed and it
tends to make us feel like we have enough in our immediate
environment. This is why some of the side effects of antidepressants
that elevate serotonin, and actually can help a lot of people with
depressive symptoms. But the side effects associated with drugs that
increase serotonin tend to be reduced affect. They tend to kind of
blunt affect or make people feel like their libido is lower. Desire
goes down because the body has so much serotonin and the brain has so
much serotonin, that one feels like they have enough. But serotonin,
pharmacology aside or taking antidepressants aside a topic for another
time, serotonin tends to make us feel good. When we see somebody that
we recognize and trust, serotonin is released in the brain. And that
has certain positive effects on the immune system and on other systems
of neural repair and synopsis and things that really reinforce
connections in the brain and prevent that long-term withering of
connections. So, serotonin is tied to social connection. Now, social
connection can take many forms. As many of you know, I am very
attached to my dog. I hope he's attached to me. He's asleep most of
the time. So, I don't know. And even if he was awake, I don't really
know what I would ask him. But he seems more or less to be attached to
me as well. And there's no scientific evidence that it has to be
human-human attachment. I do have attachments to humans as well. But
you can have attachments to other people. Some of those can be
romantic attachments. They could be familial attachments that are non-
romantic, friendship, pets, even attachments to things that just
delight us. One of the things that really can mitigate against the
long-term negative effects of chronic long-term stress isn't just
having fun. We hear all this stuff, "You need to play and have fun."
That can be a little bit of a tough concept, especially for the hard
driving people or people that are stressed, but having a sense of
delight, a sense of really enjoying something that you see and engage
in, witness, or participate in, that is associated with the serotonin
system. And certainly, play is one of those things. Social connection
of various forms. Those are things to invest in. Some people might
say, "Well, nobody wants to be my friend," or, "Nobody wants to engage
socially anymore." I'll be the first to admit, social connection and
friendship and relationships of all kinds to animals or humans or
inanimate objects takes work.
It takes investment. It takes time in not needing everything to be
exactly the way you want it to be. I have a friend who struggles with
this and oftentimes the conversations just circle back to the fact
that when you want social connection, you often have to be more
flexible. You have to eat on other people's schedules. Sometimes you
have to eat things you don't necessarily want to eat the most in that
moment or stay up a little later or wake up a little earlier. Social
connection is something that we work for, but it is incredibly
powerful. I want to, of course, tip my heart to, it's only appropriate
to call him the great Robert Sapolsky, my colleague who I'm
unfortunate to know at Stanford. Of course, he has talked about this
quite a lot. So, I want to acknowledge Robert's incredible work and
discussions around this. You can look up those materials online and
his wonderful books. But primates, and we are primates, we are social
species. And as Robert has said many times before, never before in any
primate history, but in particular in human history have we interacted
with so many strangers at a distance when we are not really connected
to them. So, finding just a few people, even one or an animal or
something that you delight in, believe it or not, has very positive
effects on mitigating this long-term stress on improving various
aspects of our life as it relates to stress and emotionality. So,
that's the social connection part. The other thing is the social
isolation that goes too long is associated in everything from flies,
believe it or not, to mice and humans with this molecule of Taqi
Kynan.
Taqi Kynan is a molecule that makes us more fearful, paranoid, and
impairs our immune system. And so, Taqi Kynan is like this internal
punishment signal. It's like our body and our brain telling us,
"You're not spending enough time with people that you really trust.
You're not spending time doing things that you really enjoy." And I
often think about Taqi Kynan for myself because I'm pretty hard
driving. I have a lot of pursuits. I also have a lot of wonderful
people and an incredibly wonderful bulldog in my life, but there are
times when I can be so goal-directed and so in motion and trying to
accomplish everything, that I sometimes forget about Taqi Kynan. And I
like to remind myself so much so that I actually have a little post-it
above my desk that says, "Taqi Kynan," to remind me that Taqi Kynan is
this very sinister molecule that starts being secreted when we are not
socially connected enough. And this is why long meals with friends or
family where there are, we'll talk about phones in a moment, but where
there's no intrusions, or even if there are, just feeling like we are
connected suppresses Taqi Kynan. And Taqi Kynan is something you
really want to avoid because chronic isolation, chronically high Taqi
Kynan that's associated with long-term stress really depletes so many
good functions of our brain and body and promote so many bad ones
including irritability, paranoia, fear, et cetera. That is really
something to avoid. And so, I want to highlight Taqi Kynan as
something to avoid. I don't want to completely disregard oxytocin.
It's just, the oxytocin has been built up a lot in the media and
really serotonin works on much faster timescales. Now, how do you know
if you're making serotonin? And you don't know in the moment, but you
can learn if you pay attention to kind of recognize these feelings of
comfort, trust, bliss, delight. And those are not weak terms. Those
are not associated just with psychological terms. They are every bit
as physiological as the movement of your muscles or the secretion of
adrenaline. And many people focus now on gratitude.
Gratitude is a little bit subjective. And here we're moving from some
objective to kind of subjective things, but recognizing, and in
particular, writing down things that you're thankful for, however
small, they may seem, does seem to have a positive effect on the
serotonin system. Now, there are a plethora of things that will also
impact wellbeing and allow you to modulate your long-term stress.
Reduce the likelihood that you'll engage in long-term stress. And we
don't have time to go into all these, but of course, finding the diet
and nutrition that's right for you, the exercise schedule that's right
for you, the sleep schedule, all that. But do not underemphasize the
social connection part, please. As well, there are some compounds that
are not antidepressants.
Although if you need antidepressants, then a clinician prescribes them
to you. Please follow their advice if that's what is right for you.
There are compounds that are not prescription compounds that can
modulate the stress system. And sometimes because of the way that life
is, we just don't have the opportunity to control life and to control
our response to stress. And at least for myself, I can only talk about
my own experience, I found it useful in times of chronic stress to
start modulating some of the neurochemistry related to the stress
response in order to help. Now, if a doctor prescribes you prednisone
or prescribes you some other hormone or something, that's important,
but what I'm talking about now are non-prescription things. You should
check out examine.com, this free website which will allow you to put
in any supplement and evaluate that supplement with they provide links
in the so-called human effect matrix to PubMed. It tells you the exact
subjects they were done in. It was a post-menopausal women. Was it
kids? Was it normal adults? Was it people with autism, et cetera.
Check out that site for any and all supplements you're considering or
taking. I highly recommend it. I've no relationship to them. I just
think it's a wonderful site that's curated all this important
information. But some of these compounds are effective enough. They
can kind of take the edge off. And I'll use them periodically myself.
And so, I just thought I'd mentioned them since there a number of you
that are interested in them. The three I want to focus on and one that
I think you need to be cautious about that I've mentioned before,
include ashwagandha, funny name, but that's what's it's called,
L-theanine or theanine it's often called, and melatonin. Let's talk
about melatonin first.
Melatonin I talked about during the month on sleep. Melatonin is a
hormone secreted from the pineal in direct relationship to how much
darkness you are in. Not emotional darkness. But light suppresses
melatonin. Melatonin helps you fall asleep. It doesn't help you stay
asleep. I personally do not recommend supplementing melatonin because
it's supplemented typically at very high levels. One to three
milligrams or even more that is an outrageously high dose. It's super,
super physiological compared to what you normally would make. It also
has a number of potentially negative effects on the reproductive
access and hormones there. Some people can take it without problems.
If you like it and that's your thing, fine. I just want to cue to the
fact that there can be issues. You should check on examine.com. Talk
to your doctor, especially in kids, because melatonin suppresses the
puberty response in a number of species. Enough about the negative
things in melatonin except that people who take too much melatonin
chronically, oftentimes when they're taking it to sleep or for
whatever reason, yes, it can reduce anxiety and stress, but it also
can reduce the output of the adrenals to the point where it can become
problematic. Now, a note about adrenal burnout.
There is actually no such thing as adrenal burnout under normal
conditions. The adrenals have enough adrenaline to support 200 years
of stress for better, for worse. The concept of adrenal burnout has
origins in the work of Nobel Prize winner, Hans Selye, who actually
discovered what he called the general adaptation syndrome. He
discovered a lot of things about stress. He did some phenomenal work
that turned out to be true. That we have stressors. There's something
called distress. He talked about eustress, which is positive stress.
Eustress has never really caught on in the kind of more general
discussion. But he had this theory that if stress went on long enough,
that you would eventually reach a phase called exhaustion. And that
turned out to be wrong. Although many of you may feel exhausted after
chronic stress, there isn't really a physiological exhaustion that
happens. And that eventually got picked up and ran with the general
public. And they talk about adrenal burnout. Too much coffee, adrenal
burnout. You hear all this stuff. There is no such thing as adrenal
burnout. The adrenals don't burn out. There is something, however,
called adrenal insufficiency syndrome, which is a real physiological
problem where some people have very impaired adrenals and they can't
produce adrenaline. And melatonin taken at very high levels for
periods of time that are too long can cause suppression of the
cortisol and epinephrine released from the adrenals and can create a
kind of pseudo adrenal insufficiency syndrome. So, be aware of
melatonin for that reason. Please, I'm trying, I alone can't get rid
of the phrase adrenal burnout. I'm not trying to give a hard time to
anyone who feels burnt out or exhausted, but it is for other reasons.
It is not because of the adrenals are burnt out. Unless you happen to
have adrenal insufficiency syndrome. So, I'm not a fan of melatonin
for a lot of reasons. Now I've mentioned several. The other is
L-theanine. I've talked about L-theanine, which provided it's safe for
you, can be taken 100 milligrams or 200 milligrams about 30 minutes or
60 minutes before sleep.
It can enhance the transition to sleep and depth of sleep for many
people. It increases GABA, this inhibitory neurotransmitter in the
brain. It tends to turn off our forebrain a little bit or reduce the
activity of our kind of thinking systems and ruminating systems help
people fall asleep. That's for sleep. But theanine has also been shown
for people that are chronically anxious or chronically stressed to, if
you look at the studies, I have a large collection of studies in front
of me right now, if you want to see those links, I know if you want
those, go to examine.com, put in theanine. They linked, for instance,
it is known to significantly increase relaxation. There are four
studies listed there with PubMed links. It is known to have a minor
effect on anxiety, but eight studies have shown that. Which I think is
a fairly large set of studies. Some of them in great journals. It also
can reduce task completion anxiety. So, anxiety related to task
completion. Not good for the procrastinators perhaps, but for those of
you that are chronically stressed. It can increase attention a little
bit, it can reduce blood pressure a little bit, improve sleep quality,
et cetera. It definitely has a notable effect on stress, two studies
in particular, that it can notably reduce the effects of stress. So,
there's a lot there. It also has effects on insomnia, on some blood
lipid profiles. And so, go to examine.com and check it out. But this
is one reason why I supplement theanine for sleep. But if I'm feeling
like I've been under a lot of stress and I'm not managing my stress
very well with the short-term and medium-term tools that I talked
about earlier, I might start taking a little bit of theanine
especially in the late afternoon, which is when I tend to start to
feel like I haven't gotten enough done and the day is kind of carrying
on. And so, you can blunt the response to stress a little bit, which
is why a lot of companies are now putting theanine into energy drinks.
I am not a big fan of most energy drinks.
Most of them have taurine, which I know some of you wrote to me and
said, "Oh, taurine is great for all these reasons." Taurine also has
effects on the microvasculature that at least for me, were not good.
It cause bursting of microvasculature in my sclera, in my eyes, which
is why I'm not a fan of any energy drink that has taurine or taurine
generally. But that's just me. You have to decide for you. I'm sure in
the comment section, there'll be a couple of taurinesters out there
that will say, "But I love taurine." Great. Keep the taurine companies
in business. But it's not for me.
And I'd like people to know that it may or may not be for them. The
other supplement that can be very useful is ashwagandha. Ashwagandha
is known to lower anxiety and cortisol. There is six, there are,
excuse me, six studies that collectively show reductions in cortisol,
which is cortisol is typically associated with waking up in the
morning, which is good. That's a healthy, brief cortisol bump that
goes away provided you're getting your light at the right time of days
at correct times of day, like morning and evening. But you don't want
cortisol chronically elevated. That's associated with all the bad
stuff about stress. There's a very strong effect of ashwagandha. You
can find dosages at examine.com. They report in across six studies,
14.5 to 27.9 reduction in cortisol in otherwise healthy, but stressed
individuals. Now, I don't know about kids. You have to look at what it
says on various supplements. Most things here are being done in
adults. So, please check carefully. But this is great. I mean, the
opportunity for me anyway, to be able to take something that can help
me reduce my cortisol so that I don't get some of the long-term
effects of stress. And I'm not going to take ashwagandha year round. I
would only do this if I was feeling like I wasn't managing my short
and medium-term stress well. So, I don't take it on a regular basis. I
do take it when I'm in these times when things are particularly
stressful. It has their five other studies that show reduced stress.
So, that's not cortisol measurements, but things like fatigue,
cognitive impairment, et cetera. It does lower total cholesterol,
which may or may not be good or bad for you up to 10%. So, some people
don't want their cholesterol lowered. Some people might. Cholesterol,
we'll talk about this in a month on hormones, but cholesterol is the
molecule from which testosterone and estrogen and cortisol for that
matter are synthesized. So, you don't want to get your cholesterol so
low, then there are all sorts of negative effects, but you don't want
it too high either. Mild effects in good clinical studies on reducing
depression, probably associated with the effects on stress and some
other things as well. So, ashwagandha is something I use from time to
time. It's kind of interesting. L-theanine, I rarely will use those
during the daytime, except under conditions where I'm feeling
chronically stressed. So, check out the human effect matrix on
examine.com.
Again, a phenomenal website. I think I've sent them a few emails
before. That's the only exchanges I've ever had with them. But I just
think it's wonderful that they put together this resource. Otherwise
we'd be stuck mining PubMed. They've collated the papers from PubMed
with links to PubMed. So, terrific resource. So, social connection and
some supplementation. Of course, diet, exercise, sleep for long-term
stress. And now we're finally in a position to talk about what we have
set out to do from the beginning, which is spend the month on
emotions.
It was very important that we discuss stress and we discuss in the
context of short, medium, and long-term stress. That we discuss tools
for short-term, medium-term, and long-term control. I don't really
want to say mitigation of stress. Stress is going to happen. But our
ability to modulate and control stress in real time offline using
tools such as respiration, using tools such as dilation of gaze, using
tools like social connection, maybe some supplements, certainly take
care of your sleep and nutrition and exercise. Again, tons of
resources and information in the sleep episodes. So, you can look
there. We will do a month on hormones, on exercise, et cetera. But
let's talk about emotions because in subsequent episodes, we're going
to talk about OCD, we're going to talk about depression, we're going
to talk about mania, we're going to be talking about dopamine and all
sorts of things. But at the core of emotions is this question, what is
an emotion? Well, it's complex. There isn't a single brain area for
any one of these things that we call emotions. My framework, and I
think the modern science, both psychology and neuroscience is pretty
well-aligned with what Lisa Feldman Barrett has taught about. Now,
Lisa's at Northeastern University. She runs a big lab there. She's a
world expert in emotion. She's written two books that are really
wonderful. One is "How Emotions Are Made," which was her first book.
The second one is "Seven and a Half Facts About the Brain." It's a
wonderful book as well. It came out more recently. I hosted Lisa on an
Instagram live once. Maybe we'll get her here on the podcast if we're
lucky. We don't agree on everything about the neuroscience of
emotions, but I subscribed to most everything that I've heard Lisa
say. In particular, the fact that emotions are context-dependent.
There's a cultural dependence, et cetera. I look at things mainly
through the lens of physiology and neuroscience and kind of low-level
circuitry. And one way to think about emotions that I think is
consistent and I think Lisa would generally approve, I can't speak for
her, but I would hope she would generally approve of this description,
is that when our internal state of stress or calm matches the demands
on us or is mismatched from the demands on us, we tend to interpret
those as good or bad. Let me give you an example. If I am feeling very
anxious, very stressed inside, and I have a lot to do, that doesn't
feel good, but it's really no different than if I'm very tired and I
have a lot to do because there's this mismatch. I'm not in the right
internal state, my internal state is incorrect rather, to meet the
demands that are being placed upon me. So, in both cases, whether I'm
too tired or I'm too stressed to do what I need to do, the valence,
meaning the value that I assigned to that is I don't feel good. It's
not a good situation and I don't feel good. Now, I might call it
stressed, I might call it anxious, I might call it worried, I might
call it a number of things, but it's not good. However, when I'm tired
and I want to fall asleep, well then I feel good because that's what
the demand is. I need to go to sleep and I'm tired. If I'm wide awake
and I need to fall asleep, then that's not good. And then the brain
tends to go down the direction of interpreting the situation as a bad
one. So, while the discussion around emotions is far more nuanced and
more elaborate than this, one way to think about your relationship to
emotions is whether or not your internal state is matching the demands
that are upon you. So, in that way, we don't really place so much
value on whether or not we're feeling alert or sleepy. We only place
value on whether or not that alertness whether or not it's full-blown
stress or not or our sleepiness, whether or not we're falling asleep
or just a little bit drowsy, whether or not that matches the
conditions that we face. And it's a useful framework to have. And it's
the reason in part why I spent this last hour and a half or so talking
about stress and how to control stress. One reason we did that is
because I think it's a valuable opportunity to learn some tools and
understand stress and really learn how to take control of stress,
which I think we could all benefit from doing regardless of age. The
other reason is that when you start to understand that you have this
kind of see-saw system in your body, this autonomic nervous system
that takes you from alert and calm to stressed to full-blown panic, it
has that capacity, or from sleepy and drowsy to passing out tired to
God forbid, let's hope never, but a coma, right? That you're basically
on this see-saw all the time. And where you are on that see-saw of
alertness or calmness positions you to be in better reaction to the
demands that you face. Whether or not the thing that you face is a
need to fall asleep or to listen quietly and not react. You now know,
for instance, that if your job is to take feedback, when maybe you're
going in for a job evaluation or you're in a relationship where there
was a call for a discussion and somebody needs to talk to you about
something and we need to talk about something, you're going to there
you're like, "Goodness, this is going to be rough." Learning to reduce
that stress response a little bit so that you are in a position to
hear the information better, and remember, from a previous episode, if
you close your eyes, you'll be able to actually focus on the
information better. There's your permission to not look someone
directly in the eye when they talk to you if you really want to hear
what they have to say. You will be able to modulate that stress
response and lean into life better. You will be able to react to
things in a more effective way and to not be reactive.
And this is really one of the important things to me anyway, is that
so much of the language around psychology, which I think is a
wonderful field, but pop psychology in particular is be responsive,
not reactive. Well, great. But then how does one do that? Well, one
does that by modulating their short-term stress response in real time.
Not by saying, "Hold on, I need to meditate. Hold on, I need a massage
and then I can have this conversation." By modulating the reactivity
in real time. How does one, for instance, be mindful? Which is a
beautiful concept, but how are you mindful? Well, I don't know, when
I'm moving through my day, a lot of times I'm just trying to get
things done. And as soon as I start monitoring and seeing what I'm
doing and kind of third-personing what I'm doing, it actually takes me
out of the effectiveness and experience of what I'm doing. So for me,
sometimes that mindfulness, that observer, as they call it, is
something that doesn't help me. It actually hinders me. What's
important to me is to be able to work and focus and then to be able to
disengage. To be able to do a non-sleep depressed or to be able to
still fall asleep even though I've been working hard until 9:30 to put
my head down at 10 o'clock and be out cold sleeping by 10:02. That's
possible if you can learn to control this stress response. And to do
that, we can't use the mind to control. The mind, we need tools. And
so, a lot of the people being grumpy or anxious or depressed, a lot of
that, provided it's not for some underlying neurochemical reason
that's chronic, a lot of that come from being poorly rested, from
overworked, from feeling like the world is bearing down on us. And so,
rather than take a subjective view of this, I take the view of
objective physiology. What can we do that's anchored to these neuronal
systems in our body, in our brain, in our eyes, in our diaphragm, et
cetera, and look to those as tools leavers that we can pull on and
push and maneuver through life in a way where we start to feel like we
have some agency. We actually have some real control because we're
controlling the internal landscape. So, I think that ought to set the
stage for where we're headed next, which is to talk about all the
things that you normally think of when you think of emotions, like
happiness, like awe, like joy.
And we will get into some of that. But all of that rests firmly on the
foundation of this thing we call the autonomic nervous system. This
stress modulation. This calming modulation system. And again, whether
or not you're activated or you're calm is not good or bad, it depends
on the situation. Certainly, when you want to fall asleep, being
activated isn't good. When you have work to do, being activated is
great. So, I hope today you were able to take a slightly different
view of this thing that we call stress. Not just see it as evil, but
see it as powerful and useful in certain contexts. Great for us in
certain contexts and problematic in other contexts. And as well to
think about the various tools that I've presented that can allow you
to adjust and modulate your internal levels of alertness or calmness
so that you can lean more effectively into life, which includes sleep
and social connection and the work you have to do. And of course,
acknowledges that the events in the world are beyond our control.
What's in our control is how we react to them. Something that's
commonly said in the wellness and self-help and psychology world, but
for which there often aren't as many concrete tools that we can really
look to and trust in real time. And of course, there are other tools
out there. As always, I'll say it, I strive to be accurate, but I'll
never be exhaustive. I might have exhausted you. I might've cured your
insomnia with this discussion today, but in all seriousness, my goal
is to bring you tools and information so that you can manage better
through life. So, thanks so much.
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relate to supplementation. As always, I always cover a lot of tools
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Timestamps below.
00:00:00 Introduction
00:04:41 Emotions: A Logical Framework of Brain-Body Loops
00:10:29 Stress: The (Falsely Narrow) Animal Attack Narrative
00:14:31 The Stress RESPONSE: Generic, Channels blood, Biases Action
00:21:08 Tools to Actually Control Stress: Reduce Alertness or Increase Calm
00:24:15 The Fastest Way to Reduce Stress In Real Time: “Respiratory Sinus Arrhythmia”
00:29:45 The Fastlane to Calm
00:34:53 Important Notes About Heart Rate Deceleration: Vaso-vagal Lag
00:36:50 Cyclic Sighing For Calm and Sleep Induction
00:37:57 Nasal Breathing For Cosmetic, Immune and Performance Enhancement
00:38:46 Two Breathing Centers In The Brain
00:39:45 Breathing For Speaking Clearly
00:40:39 The 3 Types of Stress: Short, Medium and Long-Term
00:42:10 Positive Effects of Short-Term Stress: Immunity and Focus
00:45:32 Adrenalin (Epinephrine) Deploys Killer Immune Cells
00:46:40 Cyclic Deep Breathing IS Stress: Wim Hof, Tummo & Super-Oxygenation
00:50:58 Inflammation Is Useful and Good, In the Short Term
00:52:02 Procrastination and Self-Manufactured Nootropics
00:53:00 Relaxation Can Causes Illness
00:54:30 Immune Activation Protocol
00:55:20 Medium Term Stress: A Clear Definition
00:56:07 Stress Threshold
00:57:10 Stress Inoculation Tools: Separating Mind & Body, On Purpose
00:59:50 Use Vision to Calm the Mind When the Body Is Agitated
01:02:36 Beyond NSDR
01:04:36 Long Term Stress: Definition, Measurement, Cardiovascular Risks
01:06:30 Tools for Dealing With Long Term Stress
01:08:20 The Oxytocin Myth
01:09:15 Serotonin: Satiety, Safety
01:12:00 Delight and Flexibility
01:13:30 Chemical Irritants We Make But Can Control: Tackykinin
01:15:40 Impactful Gratitude
01:16:25 Non-Prescription Chemical Compounds For Additional Anti-Stress Support
01:18:04 Melatonin: Cautionary Note About Adrenal Suppression
01:19:15 Adrenal Burnout Is A Myth… But Why You Need to Know About It Anyway
01:21:10 L-Theanine For Stress Reduction and Task Completion Anxiety
01:23:00 Beware Taurine and Energy Drinks With Taurine
01:23:30 Ashwagandha: Can Powerfully Lower Anxiety And Cortisol
01:25:50 Examine.com Is An Amazing Free Resource
01:26:20 How This All Relates to Emotions: State Versus Demand = Valence
01:32:00 Modulating Reactivity, Mindfulness, & Functionality With Objective Tools
01:34:00 Next Steps
01:35:40 Topic Suggestions, Subscriptions and Reviews Please
01:37:40 Additional Resources, Synthesis
Please note that The Huberman Lab Podcast is distinct from Dr.
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